Working as a woman in a man’s world
Thursday, June 30 2011 11:20
Written by: Devanny Novak
For some women, the tradeshow industry is considered an equal playing field. The opportunities for men are the same
for women, and there is no difference because of gender. However, for other women who find themselves working
harder for lesser opportunities, the tradeshow industry is still largely considered a boy’s club.
“Breaking into an industry where women held only secretarial positions was not easy,” said Jill Hebert, CEO of
Matrex Exhibits, which has been around for 23 years. “When road blocks are intentionally placed in your path,
when your pay is less than equal, when the hours are longer, what do you do?”
A majority of the women who encounter gender issues in the tradeshow industry have found their own ways of
confronting the struggle. Whether a woman chooses to deal with gender prejudice head on or adapt her methods
and ignore the bias, every female has cultivated her own tactics.
“You’re going to have to play the game to get stuff done,” said Elaine Cohen, owner of Live Marketing, an
experiential marketing firm that has been in business for four years. “Whether it’s playing to men’s egos or
making it seem like it was their idea, you just have to get it done.”
Other women are not so keen to tolerate the limitations set before them. To them, gender bias is just another
obstacle to transcend in the workplace.
“You have to learn how to stand your ground and fight for what you believe in,” said Stacy Barnes, national
sales manager at Brumark, who has been managing employees for six years. “You have to learn to overcome the
fear of people not liking you.”
The gender line in the workplace is drawn early, meaning that women face simple challenges where men would not,
such as asking an employee to carry out a task.
“It’s kind of like taking orders from your mother or father,” said Barnes. “A lot of people look at women
bosses as the lenient mom, and they can do whatever they want. But of course they would do what the father
wants every time.”
So what is a woman to do in a male-dominated industry? What kind of approaches do these women take to get
results in their business?
“If there are issues, I prefer to speak with the individual directly and be clear about my expectations,” said
Kim Merkin, who has managed a staff for 7 years and is currently the director of sales, west coast, at
Czarnowski. “Speaking too sternly is demeaning.”
Rather than being straightforward and delegating tasks specifically, a more liberal approach of handling
employees is creating a collaborative effort throughout the company.
“My philosophy is to establish goals, offer suggestions and brain storm with individuals,” said Hebert. “Give
people creative freedom and they will develop the solution.”
Another controversial aspect of a woman’s job in the tradeshow industry is earning respect from other
co-workers and employees.
“I believe it is important to clearly set performance expectations and then hold people accountable,” said
Shelly Justice, 10-year owner of Convention Models and Talent. “Respect is a big part of managing employees. It
needs to be earned, and there is no gender distinction.”
Often, women face challenges simply because they are seen as naive and have a tendency to lead with their heart
rather than their mind. This view is detrimental to the progression of women in the workplace.
“Women are going to come up with more emotional or experience-related things,” said Cohen. “Where women tend to
be much more human, guys are more practical and tech-solution oriented.”
The difference between men and women can also be seen in the way insubordinate employees are handled.
“The most important thing is to keep a level head,” said Shana Carr, division president of MC2, who has been
managing employees for 12 years. “There have been a couple times where an employee got out of hand and I
started to lose my cool as well. I walked away, cooled down, thought it through and went back with a different
approach. Leadership is leadership, and it is not a gender-specific talent.”
Although women throughout the industry are developing their own ways of handling the gender bias, for some, it
isn’t even an issue.
“I know who I am, what I have accomplished and what I bring to the table to my employees and clients,” said
Justice. “I am very headstrong and not easily intimidated, and I am very confident.”
According to Alicia Rosen, president of Elements who has been in an executive position for six years, the time
you’ve spent in the industry speaks louder than any other factor.
“There are often many roads that lead to the same place,” she said. “Every newbie definitely has to prove
themselves as knowledgeable and competent before earning any trust. It isn’t handed out freely.”
Regardless of whether a woman is affected by her gender, the future for women in the tradeshow industry can
only improve.
“I don’t think we have to play the ‘woman card’ to be respected in this industry,” said Carr. “The change will
happen naturally as more women play more significant roles. We only have to prove ourselves with results.”
Source: http://www.exhibitcitynews.com
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